31-Days of Kindness: Day 30

31-Day Kindness Challenge: Day 30
“The smallest act of kindness is worth more than the greatest intention.” ~ Kahlil Gibran

When I stayed at an ashram in India we would practice breath work and asana very early in the mornings when the kitchen fires were also lit. Many mornings the meditation and practice hall was filled with smoke. These were not the ‘ideal’ conditions I imagined when I thought about training in India. We practiced anyway.

Today’s video was recorded in a teensy window of time when my family was out. When I came up with the idea to post every other day in the month of December I didn’t consider the part that I would be away for part of it, or that my family would also be home for two of the four weeks. In one part of this particular video my cat, Lou, plays with a very loud toy (sorry) and then later attacks my foot. The result was not the video I imagined but one that still shows what I hoped to share: a yoga series filled out with extra poses.

When you decide to practice at home, conditions also might not be ideal. Maybe you live with loud-talkers or where street noise feels intrusive, perhaps you have minimal space or a busy schedule, feel like it’s too hot or too cold…the list could go on forever.

Practice anyway.

Have more than an intention…

Recognize the value of filling your own well of kindness; when your own well is full, you are more likely to spill kindness out into the world through your interactions with others.

Everyday, carve out the time to look upon your breath and your body with gentle kindness and gratitude. If you do this for one minute each morning it is better than the intention of practicing for one hour and never getting around to it.

Start small and build.

Once you have built a basic structure, pose by pose, then fill out that structure and allow yourself the freedom to practice with a playful and friendly curiosity. The series I have shown in the last 30 days is only one of many possibilities.

Begin in kindness. Everyday.

Here is the link to today’s self-kindness yoga practice.

31-Days of Kindness: Day 29

31-Days of Kindness: Day 29
“A warm smile is the universal language of kindness.”  ~ William Arthur Ward

Today’s Act of Kindness: Give the gift of your smile today as often as possible.

According to an article published by the Association of Psychological Science, “Other muscles can simulate a smile, but only the peculiar tango of the zygomatic major and the orbicularis oculi produces a genuine expression of positive emotion. Psychologists call this the “Duchenne smile,” and most consider it the sole indicator of true enjoyment…French anatomist Guillaume Duchenne…wrote that the zygomatic major can be willed into action, but that only the “sweet emotions of the soul” force the orbicularis oculi to contract.”

An inactive orbicularis oculi must be the difference between a smile that moves the mouth but never reaches the eyes. Let your smile make your eyes sparkle and spread through your whole body today as an act of kindness to yourself and all those who see your smile.

🙂

31-Days of Kindness: Day 28

31-Days of Kindness: Day 28

One of the best guides to how to be self-loving is to give ourselves the love we are often dreaming about receiving from others. ~ Bell Hooks
A yoga practice is a good way to practice so many things; reliably show up for yourself on your mat, move in ways that nurture you, approach every pose in authentic kindness by working more or less according to your real needs, speak to yourself kindly when you don’t get it right because you won’t always get it right.

Here is today’s yoga practice link.

31-Days of Kindness: Day 27

31-Days of Kindness: Day 27
“Gratitude is the inward feeling of kindness received. Thankfulness is the natural
    impulse to express that feeling.” ~ Henry Van Dyke

Today’s Act of Kindness: Create a list of things you are grateful for and share it over dinner or a video call. You might also consider creating a gratitude jar that everyone in your household can add to each night for the next five days to be read on New Year’s Eve.

Reflecting on what you already have in your life as a way to stay present is often the focus of most gratitude practices. There is value in the practice of placing your attention where you want it. There is also value in recognizing the beautiful life that is right there in front of you.

What if the benefits of a practice ran deeper than that?

According to current scientific literature through peer reviewed studies, practicing gratitude has tremendous positive effects on mental and physical health. The means to these effects may surprise you.

Certain key elements to scientifically supported protocols include the need for story (narrative) and the importance of receiving or perceiving gratitude rather than giving it. Interesting, isn’t it? Have a listen to the Huberman Lab Podcast (one of my favourite podcasts right now) to learn more and to learn how to build a highly effective practice.

31-Days of Kindness: Day 26

31-days of kindness: day 26
“And I said to my body, softly, ‘I want to be your friend.’ It took a long breath and replied, ‘I have been waiting my whole life for this.’” ~ Nayyirah Waheed

Be a friend to your body; speak to it with kindness, eat healthy food, drink water, spend time outside, move. Here is today’s home yoga practice link.