31-Days of Kindness: Day 31

31-Days of Kindness:
“I hope you will have a wonderful year, that you’ll dream dangerously and outrageously, that you’ll make something that didn’t exist before you made it, that you will be loved and that you will be liked, and that you will have people to love and to like in return. And, most importantly (because I think there should be more kindness and more wisdom in the world right now), that you will, when you need to be, be wise, and that you will always be kind.” ~ Neil Gaiman

Act of Kindness: Make a plan for how you (and a group of friends) can pay kindness forward in 2022.

Here are 100 ideas from Sign Up Genius

For Strangers

  1. Give an unexpected compliment.
  2. Plant a tree.
  3. Let someone cut in front of you in line.
  4. Pay the toll for the car behind you.
  5. Slow down so someone can merge in front of you in traffic.
  6. Let someone else take that primo parking spot.
  7. Give someone your seat on a crowded bus or subway.
  8. Put coins in an expired parking meter.
  9. Give up your seat on a plane so other travellers can sit together.
  10. Buy a warm meal for someone in need.
  11. Help someone struggling to carry their grocery bags.
  12. Stop to assist someone who looks lost.
  13. Say something encouraging to a parent who’s struggling with rambunctious kids in a restaurant or grocery store.
  14. Offer to return a stranger’s grocery cart to the front of the store.
  15. Keep plastic bags filled with snacks and sample-size toiletries in your car to give to the homeless. 
  16. Donate flowers to a nursing home.
  17. Hand out disposable water bottles to people working outside on a hot day.
  18. Buy a gift card to hand to someone on your way out of the coffee shop.
  19. Leave a great coupon next to that item in the grocery store.
  20. Pick up a piece of litter on the street and throw it out.
  21. Pass along a compliment to a service worker’s boss.
  22. Take the time to write a great online review for a restaurant you love.
  23. Pay for the meal of the people at the next table. (Leave before they realize what you’ve done.)
  24. Leave a positive comment on a news article or blog post.
  25. Learn CPR.
  26. Give an extra tip and write an encouraging note along with it.
  27. Keep an extra umbrella in your car to give to someone stuck in the rain.
  28. Buy lemonade from a child’s lemonade stand.
  29. Visit a nursing home — read books to or play board games with residents.
  30. Send a care package to a service member.
  31. Bring treats to your local fire station.
  32. Write a thank you note to your mail carrier.
  33. Talk to a stranger at a party who looks like they don’t know anyone.
  34. Smile at someone who looks sad.

For Nonprofits

  1. Participate in a charity walk or run.
  2. Give blood. 
  3. Donate your old cell phone or other electronics to charity.
  4. Sign up for a bone marrow registry.
  5. Become an organ donor.
  6. Donate gently used clothes to a charitable thrift shop.
  7. Give old blankets, sheets and towels to an animal shelter.
  8. Donate your unused frequent flyer miles to a charity partner of your airline.
  9. Sign up for a shift at your local soup kitchen.
  10. Play with animals at a local shelter. 
  11. Donate your old glasses.
  12. Contribute used books to the library or school media centre.
  13. Organize a donation drive for colouring books, toys and art supplies for a hospital paediatric ward.

For Co-Workers

  1. Donate a vacation or sick day to a colleague who’s struggling with an illness or caring for a sick loved one.
  2. Tell your boss one thing you love about him/her.
  3. Bring in a favourite treat and leave it in the break room. (It’s extra fun if you do it anonymously.)
  4. Compliment a colleague to your boss.
  5. Deliver coffee to an office assistant.
  6. Post sticky notes with uplifting messages on the bathroom mirrors. 
  7. Stay late for a co-worker who needs to get home.
  8. Invite a co-worker who is alone over the holidays to your home to celebrate.
  9. Share your knowledge freely.
  10. Mentor someone.
  11. Write a thank you note to someone who has helped your career.
  12. Make friends with someone new to the company.
  13. Add a positive comment to the conversation if office chatter becomes negative.
  14. Tell a joke to lighten the mood when a co-worker is handling a tough assignment.

For Neighbors

  1. Introduce yourself, even if — especially if — you’ve lived near each other for a while but haven’t met.
  2. Compliment a neighbour on a feature of their home.
  3. Scrape the ice off a neighbour’s windshield after you’ve finished doing yours.
  4. Mow their lawn, rake their leaves or sweep their sidewalk as a surprise.
  5. Make a double batch of the cookies you’re baking and bring some next door.
  6. Plan a neighbourhood block party so everyone can get to know each other better. 
  7. Walk your neighbour’s dog when he has to stay late at the office.
  8. Offer to babysit a neighbour’s child for free.
  9. Build a “little free library” box in your yard. Put books in it for your neighbors to borrow, and invite them to donate their books.
  10. Make dinner for a neighbour who has just had a baby or surgery. 

For Teachers

  1. Write a thank you note to a teacher who made a difference in your life.
  2. Tell the principal how much you love your child’s teacher.
  3. Offer to read to your child’s class during story time. 
  4. Offer to make copies or do other chores for your child’s teacher.
  5. Create a new bulletin board for a teacher. 
  6. Send in glue sticks, pencils, sticky notes and paper towels for your child’s classroom in the middle of the school year as supplies dwindle.
  7. Plan a surprise gift or lunch for a teacher during Teacher Appreciation Week. 
  8. Raise money for a project on your teacher’s classroom wish list.
  9. Send in hand sanitizer and tissues during flu season. 
  10. Send in tissues for spring allergy season.

For Friends and Loved Ones

  1. Be on time. 
  2. Call your mom or dad just to say I love you.
  3. Research your family tree and share what you learned with other family members.
  4. Tell a friend what you love about their children.
  5. Attend an event, such as a dance recital or sporting event, of a friend’s child.
  6. Send a message to a friend, letting them know you appreciate them.
  7. Reconnect with an old friend you’ve lost touch with over the years. Share a memory you carry with you.
  8. Forgive someone who has wronged you.
  9. Make amends with someone you have wronged.
  10. Do chores for a family member who could use some extra free time.
  11. Let your spouse sleep in when it’s his/her turn to get up early with the kids.
  12. Donate to a friend’s favorite charity in their name.
  13. Give a friend a book you think they would like.
  14. Send a print of a photo you took of a friend or their child.
  15. Write a letter of encouragement to a child you know is having a hard time.
  16. Send a friend a helpful or inspiring article that made you think of them.
  17. Figure out a friend or family member’s half birthday (six months from their full birthday) and surprise them with a little treat on that day.
  18. Write a sweet, encouraging note and put it in your child’s lunch box or under their pillow.
  19. Don’t forget yourself! Schedule a pedicure or massage, spend a few hours reading a great book or make time for another activity you love. Being kind to yourself will give you the energy and strength to be kind to others!

31-Days of Kindness: Day 30

31-Day Kindness Challenge: Day 30
“The smallest act of kindness is worth more than the greatest intention.” ~ Kahlil Gibran

When I stayed at an ashram in India we would practice breath work and asana very early in the mornings when the kitchen fires were also lit. Many mornings the meditation and practice hall was filled with smoke. These were not the ‘ideal’ conditions I imagined when I thought about training in India. We practiced anyway.

Today’s video was recorded in a teensy window of time when my family was out. When I came up with the idea to post every other day in the month of December I didn’t consider the part that I would be away for part of it, or that my family would also be home for two of the four weeks. In one part of this particular video my cat, Lou, plays with a very loud toy (sorry) and then later attacks my foot. The result was not the video I imagined but one that still shows what I hoped to share: a yoga series filled out with extra poses.

When you decide to practice at home, conditions also might not be ideal. Maybe you live with loud-talkers or where street noise feels intrusive, perhaps you have minimal space or a busy schedule, feel like it’s too hot or too cold…the list could go on forever.

Practice anyway.

Have more than an intention…

Recognize the value of filling your own well of kindness; when your own well is full, you are more likely to spill kindness out into the world through your interactions with others.

Everyday, carve out the time to look upon your breath and your body with gentle kindness and gratitude. If you do this for one minute each morning it is better than the intention of practicing for one hour and never getting around to it.

Start small and build.

Once you have built a basic structure, pose by pose, then fill out that structure and allow yourself the freedom to practice with a playful and friendly curiosity. The series I have shown in the last 30 days is only one of many possibilities.

Begin in kindness. Everyday.

Here is the link to today’s self-kindness yoga practice.

31-Days of Kindness: Day 29

31-Days of Kindness: Day 29
“A warm smile is the universal language of kindness.”  ~ William Arthur Ward

Today’s Act of Kindness: Give the gift of your smile today as often as possible.

According to an article published by the Association of Psychological Science, “Other muscles can simulate a smile, but only the peculiar tango of the zygomatic major and the orbicularis oculi produces a genuine expression of positive emotion. Psychologists call this the “Duchenne smile,” and most consider it the sole indicator of true enjoyment…French anatomist Guillaume Duchenne…wrote that the zygomatic major can be willed into action, but that only the “sweet emotions of the soul” force the orbicularis oculi to contract.”

An inactive orbicularis oculi must be the difference between a smile that moves the mouth but never reaches the eyes. Let your smile make your eyes sparkle and spread through your whole body today as an act of kindness to yourself and all those who see your smile.

🙂

31-Days of Kindness: Day 28

31-Days of Kindness: Day 28

One of the best guides to how to be self-loving is to give ourselves the love we are often dreaming about receiving from others. ~ Bell Hooks
A yoga practice is a good way to practice so many things; reliably show up for yourself on your mat, move in ways that nurture you, approach every pose in authentic kindness by working more or less according to your real needs, speak to yourself kindly when you don’t get it right because you won’t always get it right.

Here is today’s yoga practice link.

31-Days of Kindness: Day 27

31-Days of Kindness: Day 27
“Gratitude is the inward feeling of kindness received. Thankfulness is the natural
    impulse to express that feeling.” ~ Henry Van Dyke

Today’s Act of Kindness: Create a list of things you are grateful for and share it over dinner or a video call. You might also consider creating a gratitude jar that everyone in your household can add to each night for the next five days to be read on New Year’s Eve.

Reflecting on what you already have in your life as a way to stay present is often the focus of most gratitude practices. There is value in the practice of placing your attention where you want it. There is also value in recognizing the beautiful life that is right there in front of you.

What if the benefits of a practice ran deeper than that?

According to current scientific literature through peer reviewed studies, practicing gratitude has tremendous positive effects on mental and physical health. The means to these effects may surprise you.

Certain key elements to scientifically supported protocols include the need for story (narrative) and the importance of receiving or perceiving gratitude rather than giving it. Interesting, isn’t it? Have a listen to the Huberman Lab Podcast (one of my favourite podcasts right now) to learn more and to learn how to build a highly effective practice.

31-Days of Kindness: Day 26

31-days of kindness: day 26
“And I said to my body, softly, ‘I want to be your friend.’ It took a long breath and replied, ‘I have been waiting my whole life for this.’” ~ Nayyirah Waheed

Be a friend to your body; speak to it with kindness, eat healthy food, drink water, spend time outside, move. Here is today’s home yoga practice link.